I have NO self esteem what can I do to change this?

Most of my life i haven been a really confident guy, nor have i had a lot of self esteem…..now that im becoming older im doing as much as possible to change that about myself. However somewhere in the process of building my self esteem and confidence i have also become a little arrogant, or so im told. How can i be a confident person, without also being considered arrogant?

My children are 4 (almost 5) and 6 1/2 years old. They have been accepted by the State of California as Victims of Crime. I need to get them both into some sports or activities that can build their self-confidence and self-esteem. Do you have any suggestions and is there any monetary assistance to help me with the costs?

I need to formulate a lesson plan for a high school biology course that incorporates self-esteem in some way. I wanted to possibly include some of the physiology involved with low/high self-esteem, but all of the resources I’ve come across focus on other aspects of self-esteem. Does anyone have any ideas for the lesson or resources I could refer to? Thanks!

I have noticed over the years and several jobs my self esteem suffers when things aren’t going well at work. Example: my request for a salary raise was rejected – my self esteem drops. BTW, I’m in sales and am good in sales. What type of therapy do I need to help me overcome this. I know better but can’t seem to shake this connection between work and my self worth/esteem.

When you meet someone who feels that they are attractive, are they demonstrating positive self-esteem or arrogance?

When you meet someone who feels that they are intelligent, are they demonstrating positive self-esteem or arrogance?

When you meet someone who feels that they are a good person, are they demonstrating positive self-esteem or arrogance?

Where do *you* draw the line between positive self-esteem and arrogance?

cAn you explain me with your own words what SELF-ESTEEM MEANS?

thank you

Is it possible to decrease your self-esteem level within half a year ?

what are some ways to boost your self esteem?
mine is lower than anyone could possibly imagine for no apparent reason.
and its affecting my relationships, so anyone have any ideas?

Whenever I see a self-esteem question on this site I almost always see the advice to just keep repeating good things to yourself like I’m a good person and repeat it so many times a day until you convince yourself. What kind of arrogant self-serving idea is this? Why not actually accomplish something to be proud of then you can feel good about yourself. Why don’t we try to have realistic self esteem instead of "loving ourselves"?